I am anticipating the latest book by Gretchen Rubin – The Four Tendencies – due out in September. Gretchen, an expert on happiness and good habits, created the Four Tendencies framework which categorizes the different ways that people respond to expectations.
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Transformation: That’s What It’s All About
This week marks International Coaching Week, a global celebration of the coaching profession. Last night in Toronto, I attended an event that celebrated the impact of coaching at Up With Women, a charity that helps recently homeless women to rebuild their careers faster. The evening featured stories of tremendous transformation.
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Customization Can Increase Your Comfort Zone
I just finished Reach: A New Strategy to Help You Step Outside Your Comfort Zone, Rise to the Challenge and Build Confidence by Andy Molinsky, Ph.D.
We can all think of moments, big and small, when we have gone outside our comfort zone – going after a promotion, presenting to a large crowd, or just being the dissenting voice in a meeting.
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Reflect Before Saying Yes
Recently I was preparing to facilitate a strategic planning session for a not-for-profit board. This had me reflecting on my past board experiences, which have ranged from a large international association to a local chapter.
As diverse as these experiences can be, one commonality remains. To be an effective board member you need to devote a significant amount of time and energy. And you need to decide where to best place your attention. The same is true in the workplace.
This is where a simple and powerful coaching concept can help: Saying Yes, Saying No.
Want to Increase Your Creativity? Take a Break
Most fundraisers I talk to wish they had more time for creative thinking. Time to let their minds wander and come up with fresh ways of thinking about their work. Coming up with new ideas can make us better at our jobs. We also know from past experience that creativity is engaging and energising.
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A is for Accountability
A key topic among fundraising leaders is how to ensure that your team gets important things done without feeling like you are micro-managing the process.
In fact, fostering a culture of accountability within your team is a key skill for all managers. It aligns perfectly with the coaching style of leadership.
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Magical Realism – Recognising Special Talents
My book club recently read an unusual novel – The Particular Sadness of Lemon Cake by Aimee Bender.
As I was searching for discussion questions for our book club meeting, I came across this phrase “magical realism” which means a genre that combines mythical elements into realistic fiction.
One of the things I found most compelling about this book was that the main character’s unusual gift (Rose tastes people’s emotions in food they prepare) quickly became commonplace. As other character’s gifts were revealed I was reminded just how magical Rose was.
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What Did You Appreciate in 2016?
For many fundraisers the month of December can be a time to appreciate others. Making thank you calls to donors. Writing messages on the stacks of holiday cards being sent to donors, board members and volunteers. Spending time with colleagues during holiday parties and potlucks.
Since it is often a busy time of year – both professionally and personally – you might suddenly find yourself facing the New Year and thinking about those resolutions. Or just wondering where the year has gone.
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The Three As to Impactful Performance Reviews
Recently I attended a panel presentation that included an HR representative from a large hospital foundation. This organization is moving towards a coaching-style of management. One of the major decisions they made was to do away with annual performance reviews. The audience audibly and positively reacted to this decision, which is not surprisingly since performance reviews are often dreaded by both managers and staff alike.
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Three Reasons to Fully Live Your Values
Values represent who you are, what is most important to you, and how you want to express yourself in the world.
Three positive things happen when you honour your values:
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